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Life of a butterfly and human connection

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You might be wondering how the life of a butterfly is connected with human and what learnings could we take away from it then stick to the end of this post. You will seriously be leaving with a lot of value. kids are innocent. The other day I told my 4-year-old niece that there's a big butterfly hovering around in our office. She got excited and requested me to get the butterfly home the very next day.  I was sceptical but for that curious soul, I grabbed the butterfly and put into a ventilated corrugated box.  She played with it for all day long and the very next day when she woke up, found it almost dead. She was feeling so sad!  I got questioned by her, "Uncle, why did it die? I played with the utmost care. It could have lived longer but then how come?" I made her sit and explained. I would like to share it with you all.  🍁When you move someone out of their natural habitat and adapted area they tend to live shorter. 🍁It is very important to allow someone

Women of 20th Century and Gender Equality

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“A woman with a voice is, by definition, a strong woman.” – Melinda Gates I was in conversation with my sister, Avani and it followed with a series of tricky questions. How do you project women of the 20th century with the earlier generation and is there a rat race between men & women? Who will win the race if there's the competition? I took a moment and answered: You belong to which century doesn't make a significant difference if we don't work on ourselves. If you really want to compare women of a different era and phases of life, the best example I can give you is of Mrs Sudha Murthy and Mrs Michelle Obama. Both did amazing work in their respective field and brought in some vision about the capability of women.✨ Now if we talk about the rat race there is no such race we should believe in. A relationship between man & women is like a "RELAY RACE" where we pass on the baton to cross the finish line. It means both are an important and equal con

How to make the best use of opportunities?

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When you need to drive your personal growth then you always need to answer one question to yourself which is, "How to make the best use of opportunities?" Whenever the most loved thing is selling at discount we try to grab it fast and also want to be the first one to own it. It is not the thing that matters for you in the first place but it is the attractive price which you are willing to pay.  Now when you consider the situation with your life it is inversely related. If one wants a change in life they have to go through uncomfortable situations. Patience can be tough! But Rome wasn't built in a day! So to build a life the way you want, there have to be some hurdles. Don't be so lame to answer the question by saying, "I am no athlete". Be the athlete of your life and jump over with full force not once but as many times it compels. So here's a few things you can do: 1. Stop looking for shortcuts or life hacks The reason being, you 'll hav

What is the key ingredient to achieve success in life?

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You were born to create history and not to read. One of the most important thing in life is to get whatever you want in whatever field you choose and to believe in your own capabilities. You need to trust the process. The more you dwell in positive self talk the resultant outcome will be in your favour. Focus! Zoom in & out. We aren't practising camera techniques but just adjusting the way you look at life. The external adversities are beyond your realm of control. The most illogical thing you can do is to fret about it & the most logical thing to do is build your own shield based on your own abilities and you can do it. The choice is yours. Amitabh Bachchan didn't have the good looks, neither he had the dancing ability nor the backing of any influential person in the Indian cinema industry but he still was convinced that he would be the alphabet of Bollywood because he focused on what he had, an untiring and hardworking attitude coupled with a c

Real source of motivation

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You need to believe it! You need to have hope! You need to strive! Yes, motivation is for real and it can create wonders in your life. We live to believe and every moment changes your life for a better cause. You are destined to win and to keep you going you need motivation. The very next question which will come to your mind will be from whom? Let's find the answer to it. We live in a world where there are constant fear and peer pressure in the era of the digital world. Why it has become so important to give importance to others life irrespective of our goals and self commitments? Social media has impacted in a very strange manner and this digital revolution going to cover us from all sides of the corner. We feel lost in the race. So it becomes important to seek motivation and where it can come from? Being an extrovert is tough these days as we have made digital equipment as our companion and then comes people from the rest of the world for us. We get to see different stories